Love makes blind
The last few posts have been kind of descriptive, I know. But fortunately, I have new thoughts tonite.This is weird how people act when they are in love with someone that is not, or not anymore, or not in the same way, the same intensity. You can tell them whatever you want, usually tips about what they should do to try to move on, to forget, to stop going down, they won't follow it. I guess this is instinctive. They know that you are right, oh yes, they know it. But anyway, their heart is not sure yet, their heart is not ready to do it, to make the big step forwards the immensity of 'stop-loving-and-feel-so-empty'. This is a hard step to take I think, but if you haven't experienced it, then you cannot understand.
I've got to realize that it is useless to tell them what they should do or not. It's better to sit here, keep an eye open, even if we don't understand, and when the lover needs support, just be here, recomforting. You see, I've been in this situation for such a long time... waiting for something to happen, not ready to move on, still stcuk to the same place. And how lucky I was to have good friends around that was just listening to me when I needed it, even if I know they did not really undertsand, they just respect. And this is the best to do.
I'm going to repeat myself but it's not a matter of time, it's matter of ourself.
Do you remember what you wrote me: 'Don't be sad, everything will be just fine. I promise you'.
You were right. Write me sometimes...
Everything will be just fine...
written by lolo/ @ 01:34
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